How Did We Meet?
- The Goldy Gay
- Mar 14, 2019
- 2 min read
Kayla and I met in the ROTC program. She was a year ahead of me and I thought I had no chance (come to find out she thought the same thing) but to me she was on Ranger challenge at the top of her class and did not even notice me and my little curly ponytail at all. At the time she was going through a divorce with her ex-wife and I was still living with my ex girlfriend (sounds complicated huh?). However, the first time I actually noticed her and she really noticed me was the night she went out to celebrate her divorce. (Not that divorce is something to be celebrated but she was glad the hardship was over) It was the first time we each saw each other out of uniform as well and I was like DAAAAAAMMNNNN. Finally, as time went by, starring and wondering If she even thought I was cute, I took a leap of faith and I stepped very much out of character and pushed her against the wall in a random ass bathroom and kissed her... hard. (I mean what did I have to lose anyways!?!) I think she was very much taken by surprise because after that it got kind of awkward. Long story short after that we started hooking up... crazy thing is while we were hooking up she told me she was talking to someone else. (Why are lesbians so crazy?!) eventually, she ended that and we made things official. Oh my goodness, how she asked me to be her girlfriend is another story all in itself. A lot of times people ask me if I mind that she has been married and divorced before, but again that is another story in itself as well. Ever since then we have been together and we started living together soon after that. Each being in the military we have been separated for long periods of times and I think through it all it has made us stronger. Not to say that long-distance relationships are not hard because oh man did we have our fights. I will make a long-distance post soon because I really feel that everyone has their own way of coping and handling it.
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